Do you notice that when your morning starts off peaceful and serene (versus rushed and frantic) your whole day flows so much better? I do. And it’s not by accident.
How we go about the first hour of waking influences our entire day.
While you need to find what works for you, there are 7 common essentials I’ve seen produce wonderful results for me and my clients. The good thing is you don’t need an hour each morning – 20 or 30 minutes will go a long way.
1. Wake Up Peacefully
How you wake up sets the tone for your day. Do you wake up naturally? Do you wake up to your favourite music? Or do you wake up to a blaring alarm? If a body can rise on its own accord, it can greet the morning already in the flow of life. This is ideal and feels delicious. This means training yourself to get to bed earlier and ensuring you are getting 7 to 8 or more hours of sleep each night. If you have trouble going to sleep or staying asleep, talk to me. I have a wonder homeopathic product that gifts my clients with amazing sleeps!
2. Intend a Fabulous Day
Before you even roll out of bed, decide what kind of day it’s going to be. Play the day’s events in your mind and imagine fabulous outcomes. Then watch as the Universe rearranges itself to deliver awesomeness to you. Your life is guided by the clarity and power of your intention. Begin your day imagining that intention is a done deal.
3. Journal to Release
Now before you say you don’t journal, hear me out. Think of journaling as tapping into the conversation playing in your head and all you are doing is taking notes. They can be cryptic or long-form. They don’t need to make sense. Imagine that as you write, you free. These words and thoughts are no longer stored in your body. You release and cleanse as you write. Even 5 or 10 minutes of journaling can make a big difference in releasing your chatter and creating space for new thoughts. Feel free to discard what you write.
4. Connect to your Big Why
Each day is a building block in your life. What are you building? Do you know? More of ‘same old, same old’ or something that sparkles? When I work with clients, we build a picture of their ideal life – complete with where they live, how they spend their time, what makes them happiest, and who is around them. It’s not enough to just picture it, but rather to spend a few moments each morning feeling your way into it. Recently I composed an audio visualization for a client that she can listen to daily to connect with her ideal life. Each morning, she leans in and embraces it more and more so that she can almost taste it – it’s that real.
5. Get the Body Flowing
After hours of sleep, the morning is time to rise and shine. Let your body guide you to the movement it wants. Is it slow soothing stretches, a walk in nature or a kick-butt routine? Even just 10 or 15 minutes to get the blood flowing, heart pumping, joints loosened and breath bringing oxygen to every cell is worth it. Or you can shift your sleep schedule to be up an hour earlier and enjoy an amazing workout in the morning before the rest of the world gets up.
6. Power Up Your Day with Breakfast
Breakfast is just that… breaking your fast. It’s essential. It’s what kick-starts your metabolism and provides nutrients for your body and brain function. Tosca Reno suggests that 25% of your daily calories come from your breakfast. And studies show that people who eat breakfast are much less likely to snack later in the day, helping to keep the weight off. So no skipping this important meal! It’s your rocket fuel for the day. Go for a complex carb (like oatmeal) or protein (like greek yogurt, an egg or a fruit smoothie with protein powder).
7. Replenish with Water
Our bodies are over 60% water, so our job every day is to replenish at least what we’ve excreted, which can be 6 to 9 cups of liquid. In fact, we excrete the equivalent of a cup from breathing alone. First thing in the morning, try a glass of water with a slice or two of lemon. It is a refreshing detox for the liver.
PICK ONE OR TWO AND EXPERIMENT
If you are new to establishing a sparkling morning routine, pick one or two of these elements to do consistently for at least 14 days. Then consider going to bed 30 minutes earlier so you can add more elements. See this as an experiment, not a prescription. Find out what works. Maybe instead of journaling, you discover that reading something inspirational better sets the tone for your day. Perfect – do that!
A NOTE TO NIGHT OWLS
You don’t need to be a morning person to develop a morning routine that supports you. Night owls will have a different routine than someone who rises at 5 am. But the same principles apply. Just avoid rolling out of bed and right into your day without directing your thought and actions toward the qualities you want. Create your day in the first hour and you’ll be set for the rest of it to flow.
Keep sparkling!
Paula















5 Steps to Dealing with Discouraging Comments (so you don’t get derailed!)
Have you ever felt discouraged by people mocking your wellness efforts? Comments like:
“Well, aren’t you Miss Healthy!”
“You don’t need to work out. You are so tiny.”
“Come on, this one dessert won’t kill ya.”
“Must be nice to be able to eat whatever you want.”
Maybe you’ve heard those words. Maybe you’ve said or thought them of someone else.
Having lived a wellness lifestyle for decades, I’ve experienced many little jabs over the years – often from people you think would be most supportive. And because it is human instinct to want to fit in and be loved, if you take those comments to heart, they can squash your exercise or clean-eating efforts. In fact, they can absolutely derail you… especially when you are just forming new habits.
I particularly love the phrase — “Must be nice” – as if it’s luck that fit people look the way they do. Every person who works at being fit knows that luck has very little to do with it. It’s a lifestyle choice. Yes, some genetics are involved. But time and time again, success stories prove that attitude and daily habits have much more to do with your health and appearance than genetics.
So how do you deal with those snarky sarcastic comments without just snapping back or derailing yourself? Here are five important steps:
1. SEEK TO UNDERSTAND
First off, know that their comments aren’t about you. They are about them. Often times when people are out of synch with their own truth, they project onto others. They justify their unhealthy choices at a dinner party by singling the healthy ones out. Having this awareness fills me with compassion for these people, because I know that if they need to project onto me, they must really be out of sorts within themselves. You can tell so much about a person by the quality and tone of their comments.
2. PLAN YOUR RESPONSE
If you know your response in advance, then these comments can slide right off you. For example, when someone says to me, “Must be nice.” My response is “Nice doesn’t begin to capture how amazing it feels.” When someone says, “Well aren’t you Miss Healthy” I say, “That’s the goal.” Plan your response in a way that is genuine and supportive of your efforts – something that reaffirms your conviction. It helps the Universe know you mean business!
3. CELEBRATE THEIR NOTICING
I’m the queen of reframing things (just ask my clients). So when someone makes a snarky comment, I take note. Hmmm… I must be doing something right that causes them to notice my delicious healthy habits. Good work Paula! Their comment just became my rocket fuel.
4. VOICE YOUR TRUTH
If you can’t reframe their comments, especially when they’re from someone in your immediate circle, talk to this person(s). Tell them how important this wellness journey is to you. Ask them to either support your efforts or keep quiet. Often times people have no idea how hurtful their comments are. Voicing your truth softly but firmly honours you AND teaches people how to treat you.
5. LEAD THE WAY
I’ve discovered the most powerful way to transform other people’s thinking is to be a role model. When a friend or family member sees the results you’re getting (because you look fantastic!), all of a sudden the comments at the dinner table seem to go quiet. The same people who were taking jabs are now asking, what’s your secret?
Isn’t human behavior funny?
These five steps also apply to comments about parenting, career or business success, or your personal spending choices.
People will always have an opinion. Their opinion is not your problem.
The world needs more people who will rise in the face of snarky comments versus shrink. Right? So remember, seek to understand, plan your response, celebrate their noticing, voice your truth and lead the way.
Oh, and one last point…
Get a louder cheering section.
Surround yourself with people who will cheer you on with inspiration and encouragement versus drag you down because of their own stuff.
That’s a key component in my upcoming journey: 90 Days of Movement that has you Feeling Fit, Fabulous and Flowing. I’m so excited to walk the path with incredible women who are willing to inspire and be inspired!
If you’re discouraged by your efforts to get your body moving, then this journey is a goldmine! Don’t delay. There are only a few spots left! Read about it here and contact me right away if you are in!
To Sparkling Choices that Fuel Success,
Paula
March 24th, 2012 | Write Comment | Category: Wellness